No More COMPARING! Greg Hochhalter anger depression following jesus freedom happiness health humility identity idolatry jealousy joy pride relationships self worth thankfulness When I compare myself to others, if I sense I’m doing better than someone, I feel superior and puffed up and this kills the love in me. If I grade myself worse, then I feel inferior and unworthy and that kills love in me. We do this to ourselves. We make ourselves miserable. Constant comparison is a toxic anti-Kingdom way to live.